Just a phase or should I go (Long, please share your experiences!)?

You are way to young to be this caught up in this drama. You're young and single ...go out and play! The world is a big place and you haven't seen any of it yet. Don't commit to anyone yet. As it happens, NOW is the moment youv'e been waiting for, so go meet hundreds of women, break lots of hearts and settle down when your'e DONE.